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Kids Birthday Dinner Traditions That Accidentally Became a Big Deal

I did not set out to create a meaningful family tradition.

I bought make-your-own plate kits because my kids needed something to do that wasn’t destroying the house, and markers felt like a reasonable risk at the time. You know the kind: they draw on paper, you mail it in, and a few weeks later a real, dishwasher-safe plate shows up with their artwork permanently baked on.

I assumed we’d use them once, say “cute,” and move on.

Instead, they somehow became one of our most-used kids birthday dinner traditions.

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Kids birthday dinner traditions uses a white plate with colorful lyrics to a Proverb quote about going together with a pink cupcake on it, held by Dear Elly author Kelly Page, surrounded by confetti.

How Ideas for Celebrating Kids Without Big Parties Started

Each kid approached this project like a very serious artist.

My daughter drew our family as stick figures — except our legs came straight out of our heads. No bodies. Just heads, legs, and confidence. She later went on to make two more plates -with a poem about teamwork, which honestly tracks. It actually tracks that she wasn’t satisfied with just one plate and needed more self expression!

One son went full battleship. Cannons. Waves. Naval drama. Complete with what appears to be a broccoli sinking to the floor of the ocean – wait, what?! If he could’ve added sound effects, he would have.

And my other son? Camouflage. Beautiful, layered camouflage. He just kept adding layers. And more layers. And more layers. Until I had to gently confiscate the markers before the paper disintegrated completely. 😂

Somehow, these became among our favorite custom kids artwork keepsakes.

A post about ideas for celebrating kids without big parties uses custom decorated plates. Five plates are laid out, each with kid drawings on them to show custom ideas for dinners.

How We Use the Special Birthday Plates for Children

Every year on their birthdays, we pull out their plates for cake or dinner. But we don’t stop there.

The plates also come out for:

  • A great grade
  • A big accomplishment
  • A small win that deserves attention
  • Valentine’s Day breakfast
  • The first day of school breakfast tradition

Basically, anytime we want to say, “Hey, this is exciting,” without balloons, planning, or emotional speeches.

Not every moment needs a party. Sometimes kids just want their mac and cheese served on their plate. That’s why this works so well for parents looking for ideas for celebrating kids without big parties. No invites. No decorations. No chaos. Just dinner, but slightly upgraded.

Just like how easy it is to leave flowers on my kids bedroom nightstands, this is hands-down one of the easiest simple ways to celebrate kids at home — and it requires absolutely no prep beyond opening a cabinet.

Also: kids never outgrow the fact that they made these plates themselves. Never.

Five white dinner plates with colorful artwork drawn by kids are laid out, some show a battleship on an ocean, some have green and brown camouflage and others have African Proverbs drawn on them to show special birthday plates for children.

Why Create Custom Kids Artwork Keepsakes?

What started as a craft project quietly turned into one of our favorite family traditions for celebrating kids.

The plates capture:

  • Their current obsessions
  • Their artistic confidence
  • Their total disregard for realistic human anatomy

They make birthdays feel special, small wins feel bigger, and regular dinners feel a little more fun — without adding anything extra to your plate (pun absolutely intended).

Dear Elly founder Kelly Page uses her hands to hold custom kids artwork keepsakes - this is a plate made by her daughter with an African Proverb quote. On it is a pink icing cupcake, and lots of confetti and party decorations are around it.

Prioritize Custom Kids Artwork Keepsakes

If you’re looking for simple ways to celebrate kids at home, this is one of those ideas that works way harder than it should.

No pressure. No fuss. Just kids, food, and plates that tell a story.

And yes — we still use the stick-figure plate with the legs coming out of the heads.

Obviously.

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